There are no do-overs in divorce.
Let’s be sure you get it right the first time.
No one enters marriage expecting to get divorced, yet when it happens, women typically bear the heaviest financial and emotional burdens. But it doesn’t have to be this way. What if there was a resource for women to learn how to manage the financial, legal and emotional experience of divorce? Now there is.
Introducing Divorce Navigator
Divorce Navigator is the first program offering comprehensive support for the legal, financial, and emotional challenges women face during divorce. Whether you’re considering divorce or already planning for it, our program guides you step-by-step, empowering you to stand up for yourself and secure what you deserve.
Our team of professionals has dedicated their careers to helping women navigate the turbulent waters of divorce.
WHO are the people behind Divorce Navigator?
The enlightenHer team comprises attorneys, financial advisors, and therapists who have helped women navigate divorce for decades. While every divorce is unique, we know what it takes to have a “successful divorce” that results in legal, financial, and emotional wellness.
In other words, we’ve taken our collective knowledge and experience and poured it into this program to help as many women as possible.
Divorce is hard.
But we can help you navigate it.
Knowledge is power. The Divorce Navigator will help you prepare for your divorce.
What You Will Learn
Enter divorce armed with the knowledge, understanding, and confidence to stand your ground and fight for what’s right. One Big Mistake: Focusing too much on the “divorce process” and not enough on the “person” divorcing.
This program teaches both the legal and financial details of divorce and how to carry yourself through it.
Divorce Navigator: The Contemplation Phase (divorce is a possibility, but not imminent)
How to be at your emotional best
- Stay strong when things are at their worst
- Learn ways to find space for restoration and healing
- Identify your “non-negotiables”
- Find your “people” and construct your divorce team
- Advocate for yourself and fight for what you deserve
- Prepare for the psychological tactics your spouse and his attorney may use against you in court
- Play to your strengths and manage around your weaknesses when in financial and custodial negotiations
The real truth about how divorce works (legally)
- Difference between dissolution and litigation
- What is spousal support
- How to pick and work with the right attorney
- How to minimize attorney fees
- When to start preparing for a divorce
What divorce means for you financially
- The financial impact of divorce
- How to negotiate a fair settlement
- How to collect and manage financial documents
- How to get comfortable dealing with finances on your own
Now that you are equipped with a foundation of knowledge and have prepared yourself emotionally, it’s time for action.
This means having the legal and financial knowledge to negotiate an appropriate settlement and the emotional wherewithal to stand up for yourself and not settle for less. Much easier said than done.
Divorce Navigator: The Action Phase (divorce is imminent or underway)
How to be formidable
- Identify your strengths, weaknesses, and vulnerabilities and how to guard against them
- Practice proper self-care through exercises that support your mental, emotional, and physical health
- Navigate the relationship changes that come with divorce
- Speak confidently with family, friends, and others about your divorce and keep your cool during awkward interactions
- Establish and enforce boundaries
“Talking points” to prepare for important questions
- How to tell your spouse about the divorce
- How to tell your kids about the divorce
- Do I have to move
- How to talk to your parents and in-laws about the divorce
The ins and outs of an effective divorce process
- Available options and how to select the right one
- Minimize legal fees
- How courts see your case
- Alternative dispute resolution options
- Litigation divorce process
How the court functions
- How the court divides assets and reaches resolutions
- How personal property is divided
- Spousal support and how it applies
- Division of financial assets and liabilities
- What is fair and equitable divorce math
Program Delivery
The Divorce Navigator is delivered by experienced professionals through:
- Short but powerful videos and program material for each lesson
- Downloadable exercises and printable program documents to guide you through every step
That’s less than two hours of time with a divorce attorney!
You won’t find a more comprehensive view into the world of divorce for less cost.
Divorce Navigator: The Contemplation Phase
- Module 1: MAINTAINING YOUR MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH
7 Lessons, 45 Minutes of Video, 14 Downloads - Module 2: THE REAL TRUTH ABOUT DIVORCE
4 Lessons, 35 Minutes of Video, 6 Downloads - Module 3: THE FINANCIALS
8 Lessons, 24 Minutes of Video, 8 Downloads
Divorce Navigator: The Action Phase
- Module 1: MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH
4 Lessons, 25 Minutes of Video, 8 Downloads - Module 2: LEGAL – THE NITTY GRITTY OF DIVORCE
4 Lessons, 33 Minutes of Video, 5 Downloads - Module 3: FINANCIAL
7 Lessons, 38 Minutes of Video, 5 Downloads
Meet Your Team of Advocates
Dedicated to helping you navigate the turbulent divorce process
Certified Life Coach and Money Mentor
Founder and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®
Founder and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®
OSBA Family Relations Law Certified Specialist
Collaborative Divorce Attorney
Certified Divorce Coach
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
This is a normal feeling in divorce. Every minute you can devote to this will be helpful. The modules are clearly labeled to help you get quickly to the topics most important to you. It’s self-paced. And you will always have access.
Video screen time for each course is 1.5 hours straight through (3 hours total), although it’s unlikely you’ll watch them this way.
You see, the divorce process doesn’t unfold in a straight line. It ebbs and flows and often moves in fits and starts. This can challenge the best of us to keep up. We’ve designed the program with this reality in mind.
The program is broken down into multiple, short videos, so you can pick and choose which topics are right for you. You never have to rush through things to save you money because you’re never “on the clock.”
Yes, we encourage it! You can email us at mcarbary@enlightenher.com. We strive to respond within one business day.
Absolutely. If you find this program is not what you need, you can request a full money-back refund within 10 days, no questions asked.
Without a doubt. Our program will teach you how to spend less time “on the clock” with your attorney and save you a bunch of money in the process. If you save two hours of time with your attorney, the program more than pays for itself.
Hiring a quality attorney is one of the most important decisions of the entire divorce process. That said, attorneys aren’t experts in every area of divorce, only law. Our team of financial and mental health professionals bring you tools and perspectives your attorney cannot nor should not provide.
Plus, as good as your attorney is, it costs you a bunch of money every time you ask a question. Our program provides legal information you can review again and again without costing you a dime.
If your needs go beyond what the program provides, there is the opportunity to work one-on-one with one of our financial or divorce coaches. Feel free to contact us at mcarbary@enlightenher.com or +1 (216)-404-2420 for more information.
Your privacy is of utmost concern. All dealings are strictly confidential. We don’t share your information with anyone or on any public forum (i.e. social media).
